der Allmächtige Gott: dein Wort im Gottesohr

Ini cuman curhat, soalnya mo cerita ke temen di lab, gak enak. Orang orang di Lab kan hobbynya ngomongin orang satu sama laen. Jadi daripada memperburuk suasana dan mengadudomba, mendingan gua gak cerita cerita, ceritanya disini aja

1. ternyata pendapat ato cerita "kalo sedang kaya/berhasil, banyak orang yang ngerubungin, tapi kalo sedang miskin/jatuh, banyak orang lari" aku liat di lab gua. Ceritanya: si A punya proyek, tapi semua orang di lab gua skeptis (termasuk bos gua), semuanya pada ogah ogahan ngebantuin dia. Gua karena kasian dan gak enak, ya berusaha sebaik mungkin membantu dan nice ke dia. Ternyata sekarang keliatan kalo proyeknya berjalan lancar, eh...orang orang yang dulunya ogah-ogahan, sekarang malah yang bersemangat 45, berusaha sebanyak mungkin melibatkan diri ke proyek itu..
Tujuannya: kalo ada publikasi dari proyek itu, agar nama nama mereka bakalan tercantum disitu
Kalo gua sih ogah..orang itu bukan kerjaan gua, mendingan gua konsentrasi ke kerjaan gua. Tapi si bos gua jadi nyuekin gua...hiks hiks hiks...lagi punya problem di Kerjaan, kok malah dibiarin aja...na ja..itu juga duitnya dia...kalo dia kayak gitu terus, bisa bisa taun depan kita harus kredit deh....gua kerja kan gak gratis :)

tapi ternyata si A itu, tipe tipe orang gak tau diri (bukannya gua meminta imbalannya), orangnya egois, kalo ada masalah kerjaan, dia dateng ke gua (curhat) en minta pendapat. Giliran gua yang ada masalah, enn cerita cerita ke dia, eh...dianya cuek bebek. Yang penting kerjaan nya dia berhasil, peduli amat kerjaan orang laen, mau berhasil mau gak. Terus kalo apa apa, punya dia yang nomor satu. Kerjaan orang laen harus menunggu kerjaan dia (kalo yang ini sih gua cuman melihat)..akhir karena saking keselnya gua bilang "banyak orang kerja disini, en kita hanya punya satu alat, jadi harus sabar". gara garanya dia ngomel ke gua, karena harus nungguin alat yang lagi dipakai orang laen. Sebetulnya terakhir ini gua sempet deket ama dia, cuman setelah tau sifat aslinya yang egoistis, gak ada timbal balik, yah gua males sih. bUkannya menuntut balesan.
kayak temen deket gua "tweety", pas lagi kesel gua bilang ke dia "geizig alias pelit" he he he gua jahat sekali...tapi ternyata dia juga ngerasa kalo dia pelit. dia juga ngeliat, gua kalo ada makanan selalu gua tawarin ke dia, gak masalah, banyak ato dikit, pasti gua tawarin (kebiasaan sopan santun orang indonesia he he he). Setelah gua omelin gitu, dianya tau diri, sekarang jadi gak pelit lagi he he he

Trus...pokoknya si A itu jadi nyebelin deh...kayak OKB..orang kaya baru he he he
seakan akan gua ini jadi pembantu. Dia mendeketin orang kalo dia membutuhkan orang itu. kalo orang jerman bilang Schleimer :)
namanya TIDAK TULUS
semoga gua jadi orang tulus deh (AMin)
Semoga juga, pendapat gua tentang si A itu salah. aku kan cuman melihat dari selama ini aku kenal ama dia.
Tapi gua sih sekarang cuekin si A, jahat yah...daripada sakit hati, kan lebih dosa lagi mending jaga jarak ama si A

Itulah orang orang di lab kita, gua baru nyadar sekarang. Kalo ada yang berhasil semua pada nice, deket deket orang itu..kalo gak..tau sendiri..
Yang pinter temenan ama yang pinter, yang bego ama yang bego
yang kaya ama yang kaya
kok gua baru nyadar sekarang ya ?
bos gua juga gitu...mana mau ngobrol sama TA
apa gua kayak gitu juga ya ?

2. Dokter: di tempat kita ada PhD student baru. Dia itu dokter (dokter beneran, bisa ngeluarin resep en praktek kalo mau), tapi lebih seneng di research.
banyak yang bilang kalo dia itu suka sama aku, gua juga nyadar sih..alias pd :)
tapi selama ini gua cuman suka just as a friend,like my other male friends
orangnya nice, enak ngobrol ama dia di lab, gak suka ngomongin orang. Pertama tama, kita kira orangnya aneh, tapi ternyata gak :) aneh karena gak suka ngomongin orang :)

3. hari ini kita makan siang gratis, ceritanya Putzfrau/tukang sapu hari senin kemarin ini memasuki masa pensiun, trus atas inisiatif sekretaris kita, kita memberikan bunga en hadiah buat dia (Abschiedgeschenk). Saking terharunya, dia mengundang kita makan siang (di Institute natuerlich). wah enak banget, dipesenin dari metzgerei...Tapi sayang nya....dianya gak dateng. Banyak yang bilang: Putzfrau/Frau Wagner agak minder, gak enak....sayang banget.
Na..ja.. kalo boss gua kayak gitu, milih milih dengan siapa dia nett...
dalam hati gua: Boss gua yang kaya, gak pernah sekalipun mengundang kita makan di rumahnya, tapi putzfrau ini begitu dermawannya

4. Hari ini, gua ngobrol ngobrol ama sea otter (kollega gua), tentang kerjaan yang gak berhasil berhasil. Trus aku bilang " man darf nicht aufgeben" artinya kita gak boleh menyerah/patah arang..
dia menjawab : Dein Wort im Gottesohr
aku balik : danke, and Amin. Semoga Tuhan mendengar kata katanya
rasanya sejuk banget pas dia bilang gitu.

5. Gua mau ngadain Halal Bihalal ama temen temen kerja gua am 5. November 2005
maksudku cuman makan makan indonesia sih. cuman pas ditanya, dalam rangka apa, gua bingung ...
Masak buat 12 orang (mindesten)

..disappeared..

setelah lama gak muncul, di email, di blog, di telepon :)
sorry buat savira :) mesagenya gak pernah kebales..hi hi hi
hari ini gua berencana menelepon, tapi pas liat jam udah jam 23.00 pasti udah bobo, jadi ya nggak jadi deh
beberapa hari ini, sibuk banget...gak sempet nge-internet di kampus, gak sempet setrika, gak sempet masak..bukan sibuk ama kerjaan, tapi sibuk ama yang laen laen..
kebanyakan undangan buat keluar malem :) gak enak kalo gak ikut, soalnya udah janji
versprochen ist versprochen
sebagai akibat keseringan keluar malam, today i was alone at home, i wanted to be alone, enjoyed my weekend by reading, writing my blog etc...just alone
my activity last week:
sunday : in the lab, helped my colleague (i was so nice :) ), because the weather was very nice, we went out to a cafe with a nice view toward Würzburg
monday: worked in the lab, and then created a PhD Hat for Elisabeth (my colleagua from other lab, who had had her Dissertation last Thursday
tuesday: as on monday, .. a hat for Christian whose Dissertation was very very good, but he got only "Magna Cumlaude"..
wednesday: worked and then went to the movie (sneak preview)...
here in Würzburg, every cinema has a program called sneak preview, it is cheaper than the normal programs, but in this program, we do not know, what kind of film we are going to see..so just waiting and surprised, and disappointed, if the film was not nice to watch. But the films are all new films
thursday: worked, finished Christian's hat and then "Federweisser Abend" :))
Federweisser: a alcoholic drink made from grapes, but It's very sweet, it tastes similar with "Legen" (indonesian alcoholic drink from palm trees). it contains 11% alcohol (minimal!!!!) and i drank two glasses !!!!!!!!!!! and then i still tried to drink "Schnapps with 40% Alcohol" !!!!! and then likör with 20% Alcohol..but just a little i just tried them from my colleagues...i do not like it..it was very bitter!!!! buahhhhhhhhhh
and then..
Friday: I waked up very early, and i really got up from my bed..and then..i felt..something wrong in my body..too much alcohol, so i decided to go bed again :)
but i was already in the lab at 8.30 (so i am still dilligent :) )
I tried to dilute alcohol in my body by drinking a lot of water..
on this day i was very sleepy..but i still worked in the lab until Christian'S PhD disputation...his presentation was very very good...but i fell asleep !!!! I felt ashamed, but i could not stand it anymore..so sleepy.
last week we planed to make sushi one friday afternoon. Unfortunately something happened with Simon (my colleguae) after he drank a variety of alcoholic drink one day before :) It was very terrible i think (i do not need to write here) :)
so tweety and i decided to go out...just for eating and having a talk..we (just feli and i) went to an italian cafe, it was very nice
and today Saturday: I want to be ALONE in MY ROOM

About "PhD Hat": disini karena gak ada wisudaan atau graduation ceremony...kita kita membuat topi wisudaan sendiri. Tapi jadi lebih lucu dari topi wisudaan. Soalnya topinya kita tempelin macem macem, ada photos, ada mini paper, mini labor book etc...pokoknya creasi sendiri, gak bakalan ada duanya :)))
kemarin ini, gua bikinin Labor book, kecil kecil gitu....trus kita tempelin photo photo..asik juga sih...

I'd already thrown away my bad luck in Tenerife/Spain :)) Part 5: The end of our stories

finally


the photo left: Bougenville at a Street in La Laguna
Where we lived, the city called : Puerto de La Cruz, a relative big city, a long the nord sea. Everyday we always had a nice breakfast with fresh fruits
we looked at the beautiful garden with a swimming pool and waterfall while eating.
almost every night, we have cooked together chicken, fish, big shrimps, spain omellete and of course wine :) was not forgotten

5 days were not enough to relieve from all stresses i got in germany hi hi h i but it really helped me to refresh my self, although i had to loss everything i had in teneriffe (I have lost my pass, money pocket including my EC cards etc :) ) but we were really lucky, we were still doing very well there, still continued our holiday
the main thing is we are very well and could go back to germany without pass :)))
that was our adventure !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'd already thrown away my bad luck in Tenerife/Spain :)) Part 4

the golden beach among the black beaches...in Tenerife, sand is black, but only in Las Teresites, the beach with the white sand, imported from africa :)


watching the sunset, while waiting for fish in a restaurant, at the beach in Santiago del Pinto

I'd already thrown away my bad luck in Tenerife/Spain :)) Part 3

"Drachenia" or "Drachenpalm: compare people down there with the tree :), this palm is very high, i do not know how big and tall it is :)



the flower below: Strelitzia, the flower of Tenerife, easy to find in Tenerife

I'd already thrown away my bad luck in Tenerife/Spain :)) Part 2

Las Mercedes : "The nebulous forest"





above: left, the forest in Las Mercedes, the cloud forest, with its red soil
when we were there, it was very nebulous, misty :)))
the right picture: mossy

I'd already thrown away my bad luck in Tenerife/Spain :)) Part I

as mentioned in my last post, last week I have had a 5 days holiday in Tenerife/Spain..It was very very nice, this small island (as small as Lombok) is not very beautiful (I think, Lombok is much more beautiful than Tenerife)
but it was just interesting to see : the other culture, the other architecture, the other people, the other biodiversity. Temperature is like in Indonesia around 27-32 C, but it's not humid /wet like, so they have a bit different flora, many banana plantage :), we always got fresh juice everywhere, orange juice, mango juice, banana juice, lemon juice and guava juice


El Teide, the highest volcano in Spain, 3.800 meter, but it is still warm upthere


we were at El Teide, before wandered around El Teide, approximately 2200 meter high it was warm, not like in Kawah Putih


caldera with different colours, stones origin from the explosion of El Tiede


the plant growing only in this region/El Teide: Takinaste, right, luckly we still could catch its small flowers









Going to Masca, a mountain, The way to Masca was very nice, It was cloudy and nebelous, but when we already arrived in Masca, the sky was very clear and hot !!! from there we can walk down to the beach/sea, 3.5h from Masca. Palms and Sukulen can be found along the way to the beach.
after having a long wandering :) we got back to Masca, and sat in a small cafe with a nice view and took fresh juice